Real Name Free Matchmaking
100% free · sourced line by line · review before release

Why is this free?Because we put the pricing and the reported walls on the table first.为什么免费?因为我们先把“他们怎样收费、怎样设障”摆在桌面上。

Within the checked set of major international platforms, we make cross-border matchmaking, real-name registration, and core use 100% free. Prices and disputes carry sources; algorithm claims are labelled as allegations or plaintiffs’ claims.中文对应:在已核查的国际主流平台范围内,我们把跨国婚恋、强制实名注册和核心使用做成 100% 免费。价格和争议都给出出处;算法相关内容只呈现为“被指控 / 原告主张”。

Price, stated plainly价格先说清楚

Reported prices vary by region, device, promotion, and service tier. The ranges below preserve the package’s reported scale and distinguish industry roundups from authoritative surveys.中文对应:传统市场的公开价位会因地区、设备、促销和服务层级变化;下面保留数据包中的量级,并把行业整理和权威调查分开。

Scenario
场景
Reported price or cut elsewhere
传统市场的公开价位或抽成
Here
这里
Meet someone through a dating platform
在婚恋平台认识一个人
Reported membership fees around ¥299–2,399/year; offline matchmakers around ¥20,000–300,000/year; luxury international services can reach $150,000–500,000.
数据包对应中文:会员费约 ¥299–2,399/年;人工红娘约 ¥2万–30万/年;国际高端服务可达 $15万–50万。
China price reporting / 中新经纬价格调查
¥0
核心使用免费
Top app tiers
国际 App 最高档
Public price lists and industry roundups show roughly $40–$109.99+/month, with some tiers higher.
数据包对应中文:公开价目和行业整理约 $40–$109.99+/月,个别档位更高。
Public pricing reference / 公开价目参考
¥0
核心使用免费
🟢 Official or authoritative source; 🟡 reported industry range.中文对应:🟢 有官方/权威出处;🟡 行业量级,页面标注“据核查”。

How the walls are described他们怎样设障

These cards present sourced material with attribution to plaintiffs, regulators, or reporting. Disputed claims are not presented as proven facts.中文对应:这组卡片只呈现有出处的材料,不把争议写成已证实事实。

Paywall: basic actions are locked付费墙:把最基本的动作锁起来

The package records: Match.com free users can receive messages but cannot reply; Tinder has an alleged invisible like cap; Hinge gives free users 8 likes a day; Bumble charges to see who liked you.数据包对应中文:Match.com 免费用户可收到消息却不能回复;Tinder 的点赞存在“看不见的上限”;Hinge 免费档每天 8 个赞;Bumble 查看“谁喜欢你”要付费。

已核查 / Checked FTC record Oksayan complaint CNBC

“You were liked”: the subscription bait dispute“你被看中了”:诱导订阅的争议

FTC materials from 2019 said Match.com sent “he or she likes you” notices to non-paying users and some accounts had already been flagged as likely scammers. The package records 499,691 subscriptions within 24 hours, about 4 million messages involving 2.25 million people, and an estimated 25–30% suspected scam accounts among daily sign-ups. Match Group agreed to a $14 million settlement in August 2025; a 2022 court ruling dismissed some allegations.数据包对应中文:FTC 2019 年材料称 Match.com 向非付费用户发送“他/她看中你了”通知,其中一些账号已被标记为疑似骗子;记录 24 小时内约 499,691 笔订阅、约 400 万条消息涉及 225 万人、每天新会员中疑似诈骗者约 25%–30%;2025 年 8 月和解 1,400 万美元,2022 年部分指控被驳回。

已核查 / Checked FTC consumer alert FTC case

A “six-month guarantee” with conditions buried in fine print假“半年保证”:关键条件藏在条款里

The FTC complaint said the promise required an approved photo within seven days and messages to five different subscribers each month; the 2025 settlement required clearer disclosure.数据包对应中文:FTC 起诉材料称需要在 7 天内上传获批头像、每月给 5 个不同订阅用户发消息;2025 年和解要求更清楚披露条件。

已核查 / Checked FTC complaint

Easy to join, hard to cancel进来容易,取消难

The FTC complaint quoted internal materials describing cancellation as hard to find, cumbersome, and confusing, with six or more clicks in one demonstration.数据包对应中文:FTC 起诉书引用内部材料称取消流程难找、繁琐、令人困惑;内部演示提到 6 次以上点击。

已核查 / Checked FTC complaint

Account closure after a billing dispute账单争议后封号

The FTC complaint alleged that Match could close an account after a billing dispute while keeping payment; the 2025 settlement barred retaliation over billing disputes.数据包对应中文:FTC 起诉材料称账单争议后可能封号并保留费用;2025 年和解禁止报复。

已核查 / Checked FTC case
Plaintiffs’ claim / 原告主张

Algorithmic rewards “designed to stay out of reach”算法“故意让奖赏够不着”:原告主张,尚非定论

In a 2024 class action, plaintiffs alleged that Match used game-like design to keep users chasing psychological rewards and in a pay-to-play loop. Hinge’s slogan was also alleged to be false advertising. The case was compelled to arbitration in December 2024.数据包对应中文:2024 年集体诉讼原告主张 Match 用类游戏化设计把用户困在持续付费循环;Hinge 口号也被指控为虚假广告;2024 年 12 月送交仲裁。

平台回应 / Platform response
Platform response: Match Group denies these allegations and has publicly said its business model is not based on advertising or engagement metrics.中文对应:Match Group 否认这些指控,并公开称商业模式不基于广告或参与度指标。
据核查 / Reported Oksayan complaint docket

Age-based pricing for the same feature看着你的钱包定价:同功能按年龄不同价

The Tinder settlement site records allegations that users over 30 were charged $19.99 while younger users paid $9.99 or $14.99. The parties agreed to a $60.5 million settlement on September 10, 2025.数据包对应中文:Tinder 集体诉讼网站记录 30 岁以上 $19.99、30 岁以下 $9.99 或 $14.99 的指控;2025 年 9 月 10 日同意 6,050 万美元和解。

已核查 / Checked Tinder settlement FAQ

Chinese offline stores: “treat customers as prey”中国线下门店:央视报道的“把客户当猎物”培训

Media reports on the 2024 CCTV 3·15 investigation described invented “virtual people,” spending-power screening, anxiety-based pressure, and memberships costing tens of thousands of yuan. A Jiangsu consumer survey reported a 93.3% information-audit failure rate, 65% sales calls, and 51.2% being steered to offline stores.数据包对应中文:媒体转述央视 3·15 调查称培训包括捏造“虚拟人”、筛选消费能力、用焦虑施压、诱导购买上万元会员;江苏调查报告信息审核不合格率 93.3%、65% 收到推销电话、51.2% 被诱导到线下门店。

已核查 / Checked media report Jiangsu survey
Platform response: Match Group has publicly said its business model is not based on advertising or engagement metrics. That is the platform’s position, not a ruling on the disputes.中文对应:Match Group 公开称“我们的商业模式不基于广告或参与度指标”。这句话是平台立场,不代表本页对争议的裁决。
View company materials / 查看平台公开资料
Algorithm wording: references to algorithms, game-like design, or rewards “out of reach” are labelled as allegations or plaintiffs’ claims. The Oksayan case was compelled to arbitration; this page does not call the claims proven.中文对应:凡涉及算法、游戏化设计或“让奖赏够不着”的内容,统一使用“被指控 / 原告主张”;Oksayan 案已被送交仲裁,页面不写“已证实”。

What the numbers say about the cost代价落在人身上

These surveys do not prove that every platform produces the same outcome. They show why free, transparent, and easy-to-exit design matters.中文对应:这些调查数字不证明每个平台都造成同样结果,但说明“免费、透明、可退出”为什么重要。

Pew 2023

35% · Ever paid for a dating site or app曾为约会网站/App 付费

Among U.S. ever-users, 35% paid; the same study recorded 88% sometimes disappointed and 55% insecure because of too few messages.35% 的美国曾使用者付费;调查也记录 88% 至少有时失望、55% 因消息太少而不安。

已核查 / Checked Pew Research Center
Pew 2023

88% · At least sometimes disappointed至少有时对看到的对象感到失望

The package records 88%.数据包记录:88%。

已核查 / Checked Pew Research Center
Pew 2023

55% · Insecure because too few messages因收到消息太少而自我怀疑

The package records 55%.数据包记录:55%。

已核查 / Checked Pew Research Center
Forbes Health 2025

78% · Felt emotionally, mentally, or physically drained感到约会 App 让人情感/心理/身体被榨干

The package records 78%.数据包记录:78%。

已核查 / Checked Forbes Health
Forbes Health 2025

58 · Average swipes per meaningful conversation平均划动后才有一次有意义的对话

The package records 58.数据包记录:58。

已核查 / Checked Forbes Health
Ofcom 2024

约 140 万 · UK adults leaving dating apps in one year英国一年内离开约会 App 的人数

The package records 约 140 万.数据包记录:约 140 万。

已核查 / Checked Ofcom

Our operating rule我们的规则

Elsewhere: paid gates and service tiers别家:层层收费

Reading, replying, filtering, matchmaking, and offline service may be split into paid tiers.查看、回复、筛选、红娘、线下服务,可能被拆成不同付费层级。

¥0CORE USE / 核心使用

Here: choice stays with you这里:先把选择权还给你

Real-name registration, private records, automated operation, no paid exposure, and no fee to unlock the core introduction path.真名注册,资料封闭保存,系统自动运行;不设置付费曝光,不用付费解锁核心相识入口。